Bars and clubs in the US tend to be more for fun than the future and not everyone wants to combine their romantic and professional lives.
But there is one place where it is possible to make that long-term dream a reality – and that’s online.
Here's what they had to say: "Growing up, I loved romantic comedies that depicted the happy endings of straight couples.
In the straight world, when an older man dates a younger woman, these relationships can work successfully for both concerned.Queer men are varying shades of the rainbow." —Chris, 25 "I went from a 225-pound fat boy to a 145-pound athletic guy.As I lost more weight and gained muscle mass, I began to notice a change in my looks.But I've learned that those romantic conventions don't work when you are trying to date a queer person.The dynamic of two men being together IS DIFFERENT.